If I say I put gelatin, maple syrup, butter, and milk into my coffee – and you look at me quizzically, then you are missing the point entirely!

It is my prerogative what I do and I have thoughtfully made it so… or I have mindfully decided not to care.

Maybe I’ve even thoughtlessly went about;

but regardless, you have it in your power to care ever more about your own acts, and to do so without an insecurity that spills out into assuming authority over or knowledge of what anyone else ought to do.

Thank you, to the rubber neckers not on my road, and to peanut gallery members everywhere: perhaps, stop watching someone else’s show more investedly than your own!