short answers: when?
Short answer zen; so:
It seems to be self education.
Voracious experimentation.
Curiosity.
Between the space of noticing and assigning labels,
Fumbling
Frightening
Flying
Fluttering
Fraternizing
Falling:
Acceptance as inroad to awareness.
Awareness as door to doing what you really want.
Or a host of dragonfly rootbeer bubbles.