short answers: when?

Short answer zen; so:

It seems to be self education.

Voracious experimentation.

Curiosity.

Between the space of noticing and assigning labels,

Fumbling

Frightening

Flying

Fluttering

Fraternizing

Falling:

Acceptance as inroad to awareness.

Awareness as door to doing what you really want.

Or a host of dragonfly rootbeer bubbles.